Nollywood veteran actress, Bimbo Akintola, recently opened up about her personal life, shedding light on why she remains unmarried at 54. In a candid conversation with her colleague Emmanuel Ehumadu, Akintola revealed that her single status is due to the tragic loss of her soul mate, a man she deeply loved and believed she would spend her life with.
During the interview, Ehumadu asked Akintola if she was married, to which she replied with a simple “No.” When asked why she wasn’t, Akintola’s response was heartfelt: “He died. The person wey me fit do forever for don die,” meaning the one she could spend forever with had passed away.
When further questioned about whether she believes she could find another man, Akintola responded with a sense of resignation, highlighting how long it took her to find her soul mate in the first place. This loss has shaped her views on relationships, and she shared that she is not in a hurry to settle down again just to meet societal expectations.
Akintola also addressed the pressure that many women, especially those in the public eye, face regarding marriage. She made it clear that she won’t allow herself to be pressured into marriage just to satisfy societal norms or please people. She emphasized that her happiness and emotional well-being are her priority.
While she still believes in the concept of marriage and its importance, Akintola noted that she hasn’t found the right person to settle down with since losing her soul mate. Despite this, she remains firm in her decision not to rush into another relationship or marriage simply for the sake of it. Her personal experience has taught her the value of patience and the importance of waiting for the right connection.
Akintola’s candidness offers a glimpse into the private struggles that even celebrities face, reminding the public that they too grapple with loss, love, and societal pressures. Her story resonates with many who have experienced the pain of losing a loved one and the difficulty of moving on from such a profound connection.
As a beloved figure in Nollywood, Bimbo Akintola’s openness about her personal life provides a refreshing perspective on the pressures women face regarding marriage and the deeply personal nature of such decisions. By sharing her truth, she stands as an example of someone who prioritizes emotional well-being over societal expectations.
