Afrobeats superstar reveals how marriage has brought discipline and peace, despite complaints from his inner circle
LAGOS, Nigeria – April 9, 2025 – Nigerian music sensation David Adeleke, popularly known as Davido, has opened up about how women and his former lifestyle of womanising contributed significantly to the challenges he faced throughout his career. In a candid conversation on The Breakfast Club, a U.S.-based radio show, the 30BG boss shared how getting married has brought a much-needed sense of discipline and stability into his life—though not everyone in his camp is thrilled with the change.
“Women have dealt with me in my career,” Davido admitted during the interview. “I’m good, bro. I’m no longer interested in womanising.”
The 31-year-old Afrobeats star, who tied the knot with his longtime partner Chioma Rowland in 2023, credited marriage for helping him steer clear of distractions that once threatened his mental peace and career trajectory.
“Where Are the Girls?” – A Shift in Lifestyle
Davido recounted a recent moment with his crew that highlighted just how much his priorities have shifted since settling down. According to him, some members of his team have complained that life on tour and in the studio has become “boring” now that he’s no longer the fun-loving bachelor they were used to.
“The other day I walked in on my boys talking,” he said. “I asked what they were talking about and they said, ‘Boss, we are not having any fun. You’ve changed. Where are the girls?’”
His response was firm: “I said, ‘Where are the girls? When I get into trouble, everybody will run away and leave me alone to face the internet. Nah.’”
The comment points to a level of personal reflection not often seen from the hitmaker, whose high-profile lifestyle and celebrity romances have regularly made headlines.
Peace of Mind Over Partying
Davido was quick to emphasize that the highs of fame, wealth, and attention don’t compare to the sense of calm he now enjoys.
“I’ve been at the highest of the highest,” he said. “The best time is when there’s no problem at all. I don’t care how much you make or how much is in your account. I have made it all. There’s nothing like peace of mind.”
These comments strike a notable contrast to Davido’s early years in the limelight, when his lavish lifestyle and romantic entanglements were often the subject of public fascination and online discourse. From international baby mama drama to viral party videos, Davido has lived much of his life in full view of the internet—and not always on his own terms.
Marriage and Maturity
Since marrying Chioma, Davido has taken a noticeably more grounded approach to life. The couple, who share a son, Ifeanyi, have endured personal tragedy and public scrutiny together, ultimately emerging stronger. In several interviews, Davido has referred to Chioma as his “rock” and “the love of [his] life.”
His shift toward a more focused and family-oriented lifestyle has earned him praise from fans and peers alike. Many believe the transformation has positively influenced both his personal growth and professional output.
“Marriage has helped me become more disciplined,” he said during the interview. “It’s not just about me anymore.”
Career Resurgence and Clarity
Davido’s latest comments come at a time when his career continues to soar. Following the global success of his Timeless album in 2023, which included hits like “Unavailable”, “Over Dem”, and “Na Money”, the artist has proven he can remain relevant while evolving musically and personally.
He has also expanded his entrepreneurial efforts, building up his record label DMW (Davido Music Worldwide) with new signings and promising collaborations, while balancing fatherhood and international touring.
With a fanbase that spans continents, Davido remains a cornerstone of Afrobeats’ global appeal. And now, with a renewed focus on peace of mind and personal integrity, he’s making it clear that the flashy lifestyle once associated with his brand is no longer a priority.
Industry Response and Fan Reactions
Since the interview aired, fans and industry insiders have flooded social media with reactions, largely praising Davido for his transparency and growth.
“Davido has lived the life, and now he’s choosing peace. That’s what maturity looks like,” one fan tweeted. Another wrote: “You can’t put a price on peace of mind. I love this new version of Davido.”
Some others expressed amusement at his crew’s complaints, with one user joking, “Imagine complaining that your boss is too peaceful now. Let the man breathe!”
The conversation has also reignited discussions about the toll fame takes on Nigerian artists, particularly when it comes to managing relationships, public image, and the expectations of those around them.
A New Chapter for Davido
As Davido continues to grow into this new chapter of his life, it’s clear that the artist is determined to prioritize emotional stability, family, and long-term legacy over temporary thrills.
“People don’t understand how much chaos comes with fame,” he said. “But I’ve learned. And I’m doing things differently now.”
With marriage grounding him and a renewed focus on values beyond material success, Davido’s evolution appears not only genuine but sustainable.
The Afrobeats icon, who once lived for the spotlight, now seems more interested in what happens when the cameras are off—and for Davido, that may be the biggest win of all.
