LAGOS, NIGERIA — Nigerian music sensation Adedamola Adefolahan, popularly known as Fireboy DML, has revealed a deeply personal struggle involving his family — particularly how his decision to get tattoos has created tension between him and his father.
Speaking during a candid interview on the latest episode of the 90s Baby Show, the 29-year-old singer shared that while his father has grown accustomed to some aspects of his creative identity — such as piercings — he remains deeply hurt by Fireboy’s body art, something the artist believes may never be fully forgiven.
“One thing that I would do that can break my dad’s heart? I think I already did — my tattoos,” Fireboy stated during the podcast. “Whenever he comes to visit me, I’m always in jalabiya, fully covered. Because tattoos, they break his heart every time he sees them.”
A Deeply Personal Conflict Behind the Fame
Fireboy DML, who rose to fame under YBNL Nation with chart-topping hits such as Jealous, Peru, and Bandana, has long been recognized not only for his musical brilliance but also for his distinct personal style and emotional openness. Yet behind the global success and on-stage charisma lies a complicated family dynamic rooted in tradition, generational values, and artistic self-expression.
The Vibration singer explained that his father, despite being relatively liberal in some areas, finds it difficult to accept tattoos — a form of body art Fireboy considers integral to his personality and artistic expression.
“My dad doesn’t have a problem with my piercing,” he said. “But these tattoos? He will never forgive me for these things.”
The singer’s remarks offer a glimpse into the inner conflict that many young Africans — especially creatives — grapple with as they navigate the tension between cultural expectations and personal identity.
Hiding Ink with a Jalabiya
According to Fireboy, in an attempt to maintain peace and avoid disappointing his father further, he goes out of his way to conceal his tattoos whenever they are together. His go-to solution? A full-body jalabiya.
“Whenever he comes around, I have to be in a jalabiya, no matter how hot it is,” he admitted, noting that the robe serves as both a shield from conflict and a symbol of respect for his father’s beliefs.
Despite the practical discomfort, Fireboy says it’s a small price to pay for the sake of preserving their father-son relationship — even if the wounds run deep.
Tattoos as Personal and Artistic Expression
While some might assume Fireboy’s inked skin is a product of celebrity culture or peer influence in the music industry, the singer insists his love for tattoos is deeply personal and not tied to his professional path.
“Even if I had ended up as a banker, I would still have had tattoos,” he explained. “It is not even about being an artist for me, I’m just that kind of person.”
Fireboy went on to describe how he views tattoos as a form of art — a permanent canvas that allows him to express himself visually and symbolically. He emphasized that his tattoos serve not only aesthetic purposes but also boost his confidence and stage presence.
“Sometimes, I want to be shirtless and still look like I am dressed up,” he said. “I want to wear a singlet and step into a place and still have a presence. That is what tattoos are to me.”
Generational Clashes and the African Creative Identity
Fireboy DML’s story resonates with many young Africans who often find themselves at odds with older generations over lifestyle choices, especially those perceived as Western or rebellious. Tattoos, piercings, and unconventional fashion choices are still taboo in many Nigerian families, where such expressions are often linked to delinquency or spiritual unease.
As the Nigerian entertainment scene grows increasingly global, artists like Fireboy continue to redefine what it means to be a public figure — often choosing authenticity over conformity. Yet for many of them, the path to self-expression is fraught with emotional consequences at home.
Fireboy’s willingness to open up about this tension is part of what has endeared him to fans worldwide. He isn’t just singing hits; he’s living a story that mirrors the experiences of millions — and choosing transparency along the way.
Fans React to Fireboy’s Revelation
Following the release of the 90s Baby Show episode, fans flooded social media with messages of support for Fireboy, applauding his vulnerability and honesty.
“Fireboy speaking on his relationship with his dad because of tattoos just shows how deep our generational gap still runs,” one fan tweeted. “You can love your parents and still not be accepted for who you really are.”
Another commented: “Tattoos don’t define character. Fireboy is one of the most humble artists in the industry. His father should be proud of him — art and all.”
A Journey of Healing?
While Fireboy did not indicate whether there have been conversations with his father toward reconciliation or understanding, his tone remained one of cautious optimism. He acknowledged that acceptance may not come immediately — or at all — but hinted that mutual respect could still be the foundation of their relationship.
“I understand where he’s coming from,” he said. “But I hope someday he understands where I’m coming from too.”
As Fireboy DML continues to grow both musically and personally, he stands as a symbol of the modern African artist — one who boldly expresses individuality while still navigating the deep roots of cultural and familial tradition.
